Reality Check

As I have said before, most days I forget what is going on with me. I just live day by day on this extended stay-cation not really paying too much attention to the bigger hurdles in my life. It is days like today however, that shake me out of it. I saw for the first time my CT scans. There they were, up on the doctors screen. As he scrolled down each scan these dark shadows would appear then disappear on my liver, like a light show. Every dark shadow was cancer, and let me tell you this shit was everywhere.

I received many options today on how to proceed with my condition. As the information was flowing in my ear all I could pay attention to were those dark shadows.

“Did he just say on my “good” side of my liver… the 20 percent he would like to try and save… I have 9? 9 tumours on just 20 percent of my liver. Geeze the other 80 must be a large company picnic.”

If my MRI next week shows no significant change to my scans (aka they do not find a cluster of tumours hiding somewhere), then I have opted for the surgical route. I should be excited but again, this is another shake to my system. I have now gotten in the routine of going to chemo, this has become normal life for me. The amazing outcomes of surgery can be great, however the implications of the surgery are also extremely scary. For instance, after the first round of surgery my body will be extremely weak. This is the perfect chance for my little cancer friends to grow and thrive. It was very clear when my doctor was explaining the risks, this is the thing he is most afraid of. Having surgery can save my life, but it could also actual do the reverse and put me in a worst state. But what choice do I have? Prolong my life on chemo for a couple years, or jump in feet first with surgery and hope for the best. He said it today, surgery is the only chance I have to be cured, and I don’t half ass anything.

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3 thoughts on “Reality Check

  1. CHRISSY says:

    .SCARY CHOICE, BUT I THINK A GOOD ONE (NOT THAT MY OPINION MEANS THAT MUCH REALLY)BUT IF YOU NEED A NURSE AFTER LET ME KNOW. HAPPY TO HELP, I’M REALLY GOOD AT SPONGE BATHS;)

  2. shjohnson82 says:

    Decisions like this are never easy to make, you have to trust your go and go with it and have no regrets looking back. I too give great bedbaths, hair washes, nail polish application and ill
    Even shave you’re legs if needed…. Beat that Chrissy, lol. I’m here if you need anything

  3. Breeeeedon says:

    Damn straight, Jamie! Those little shits aren’t gonna know what hit them! I have so much faith and so many strong inclinations that you’re going to give them a BEAT DOWN! And you’re obviously going to win the challenge btwn you and your surgeon. All good vibes to ya, babes! You are an inspiration.

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